When we ask [men] if they would like to be treated like the women in porn, they say ‘of course not, but that does not mean that those girls don’t, just because YOU wouldn’t like these things to be done to your body doesn’t mean that THEY do not like it’. Because ‘those girls’ are so different then us, than regular human beings…

The fact is that women have been brainwashed to think that enduring pain is an integral part of their duty of performing femininity. Women harm their feet to walk in high heels. Women voluntarily submit themselves to painful surgeries to have bigger breasts. They go through painful waxing procedures. Women are good women when they overcome their pain with a smile.

And now, thanks to porn, girls are seeking advice on the internet about how to give deepthroated blowjobs without puking and how to make anal sex less painful. Men are never expected to do such things.

comment by MissFit on Porn Part 11: The Difference Between Huffing Dong and Flipping Burgers 

"men in porn are paid to orgasm, while women are paid to suffer"

(via 5oak)

Don’t put up with bad sex. It isn’t worth the energy, find someone that fucks you the way you desire.

Don’t put up with toxic friendships. Show them the door, and find people who make you remember what you love in life.

Don’t put up with unhealthy families. You are not obliged to love them, you don’t deserve their cruelty just because you share blood.

Do not put up with bad relationships. Love and be loved like an ocean and do not accept a stream.

Don’t put up with a life that you didn’t ever want. You are never expected to stay constant, change daily and grow hourly, life is huge.

― FRS. (via lilith-not-eve)
I know I probably don’t cross your mind much anymore but I hope someday you see something that reminds you of me and the things we use to spend hours talking about at night and then your throat gets tight and your heart skips a beat and you finally miss me back.
I miss you so much - missinyouiskillingme (via perfect)

xxcactusdudexx:

me at 13: “i’m really mature for my age though”
me at 20: i was a fucking idiot
also me at 20: i’m still a fucking idiot